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I did something this weekend I never thought I'd have to or want to do... I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 8 months... He probably thinks I'm a jerk... He probably thinks I was just insecure about our relationship... But I did mean to break up, even if I didn't mean to hurt him...
We were long-distance, with him being in Tasmania and me in America, and he kept hurting me, whether he realized it or not... All the time, I would hear from him that he looked at other girls and developed crushes on them, and always told me that he was sorry, that he felt guilty for crushing on other women and for his heart not being truly devoted to me... It always hurt to hear that from him... My heart felt as though knife after knife was going through the same, unhealed cut he inflicted on me the first time he told me... He knew it hurt me to hear it, yet still he told me! And it hurts so much to think about! I've been trying to distract myself so that I wouldn't think about it, because I'll start to cry if I do...
I don't want to say I broke up with him because it was the right thing for me... That's a selfish thought... I wanted to break up because I felt that we were hurting each other... If he feels so guilty about not being truly devoted to me, then I hope he'll be comforted by the thought that he'll no longer be tied to me, and that he'll find someone that deserves him more than me... I keep thinking about the Doctor Who episode "Asylum of the Daleks," where we find that Amy and Rory are going to divorce, and then we find that Amy felt that she had to give Rory up for his sake... I keep comparing myself to Amy in this episode, but the only difference is that my now-ex and I will never get back together... I doubt he even realizes that we aren't together anymore...
The gods only know how much I miss him... But I can never go back to him, no matter how much I want to. And I want to so very badly... All I want now is for us to be really good friends and role play buddies, but I know that's a lot to ask... I wouldn't blame him if he never wants to speak to me again...
To those of you reading this and thinking that I'm a horrible person, that I'm being too dramatic, that I'm a selfish bitch interested in only myself, or that I'm making all of this up for attention... Perhaps the first two are correct... But know that I'm not making this up. Nor am I thinking of only myself. Any physical pain I receive is justice for what I have done to my ex-boyfriend Keith.
Keith, if you're reading this, then I hope you understand how much I love you, and that will never change. Think ill of me if you wish; I deserve it. But I want you to know that everything we went through was absolutely wonderful, and I regret nothing of our relationship; I only regret it had to end this way. I know this is a hard thing to ask and answer on both of your parts, but I hope that we can be friends. I'll understand if you never want to see or hear from or of me again. Goodbye, my love...
We were long-distance, with him being in Tasmania and me in America, and he kept hurting me, whether he realized it or not... All the time, I would hear from him that he looked at other girls and developed crushes on them, and always told me that he was sorry, that he felt guilty for crushing on other women and for his heart not being truly devoted to me... It always hurt to hear that from him... My heart felt as though knife after knife was going through the same, unhealed cut he inflicted on me the first time he told me... He knew it hurt me to hear it, yet still he told me! And it hurts so much to think about! I've been trying to distract myself so that I wouldn't think about it, because I'll start to cry if I do...
I don't want to say I broke up with him because it was the right thing for me... That's a selfish thought... I wanted to break up because I felt that we were hurting each other... If he feels so guilty about not being truly devoted to me, then I hope he'll be comforted by the thought that he'll no longer be tied to me, and that he'll find someone that deserves him more than me... I keep thinking about the Doctor Who episode "Asylum of the Daleks," where we find that Amy and Rory are going to divorce, and then we find that Amy felt that she had to give Rory up for his sake... I keep comparing myself to Amy in this episode, but the only difference is that my now-ex and I will never get back together... I doubt he even realizes that we aren't together anymore...
The gods only know how much I miss him... But I can never go back to him, no matter how much I want to. And I want to so very badly... All I want now is for us to be really good friends and role play buddies, but I know that's a lot to ask... I wouldn't blame him if he never wants to speak to me again...
To those of you reading this and thinking that I'm a horrible person, that I'm being too dramatic, that I'm a selfish bitch interested in only myself, or that I'm making all of this up for attention... Perhaps the first two are correct... But know that I'm not making this up. Nor am I thinking of only myself. Any physical pain I receive is justice for what I have done to my ex-boyfriend Keith.
Keith, if you're reading this, then I hope you understand how much I love you, and that will never change. Think ill of me if you wish; I deserve it. But I want you to know that everything we went through was absolutely wonderful, and I regret nothing of our relationship; I only regret it had to end this way. I know this is a hard thing to ask and answer on both of your parts, but I hope that we can be friends. I'll understand if you never want to see or hear from or of me again. Goodbye, my love...
Back to School!
Back in October 2023 I started working toward earning my Master's Degree in Fine Arts! I'm working full-time while doing classwork full-time so I'm pretty busy and tired all the time. But I can't state enough just how much I enjoy being back in school again! Especially when it's doing something I love: art! I'm excited to continue my classes and learn even more! I'll probably make another post giving more detail at a later date.
Necronomicon Tampa, FL
I'll be at Necronomicon Tampa next week! I'm helping Nash sell his books and selling my prints of the covers of both Heathen's Barrow books in Writer's Alley! If you're gonna be there, come say hi and show us some support!
Hello again! ... Sorta?
I feel like it's been an age and a half since I last posted anything, art or stories included, so I thought I'd give a bit of an update. Well, I'm trying to become more professional in my art career in terms of creating and marketing myself. I've hesitated on the second part for a few years now due to anxiety, so it's time to take a breath and be brave. Commissions are open. I'm currently working on setting prices and making a commission sheet, but making that sheet may take a bit since I'm having some technical difficulties... The laptop I've had since... I think 2017 has been showing it's age for over a year. Two years ago it was moving as slow as molasses in January, and the motherboard had to be replaced... which reset the whole device and I lost soooo many files... Papers I wrote in college, stories I started writing, and several pieces of art I was working on... Needless to say I've learned my lesson in backing up my art files, but that loss of my work really hurt my soul and
Confidence
The past couple of weeks, I’ve been dealing with someone who has been trying to take advantage of me and my talent and art. I was worried, but now I know who my friends are, and I know who has my back through thick and thin. And I am so grateful to God and everyone in my circle who has shown me who truly cares for me and is in my corner.
For once I am confident I can get through this.
Bring it on!
As always, stay foxy!
~Artimis
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Honey, you need to what's best for you. In the end what matters the most is your happiness. You can't bend over backwards and hold out your life if he won't do the same for you. You deserve better.